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How to get the person of your dreams- Psychology 101
mamario00
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Hello my Talers, if you had clicked on this thread, this means that you are interested in getting that one person on your friend list who you want to date. Say no more, for I will give you the basics of psychology to get ANYBODY you want. The first thing you need to know that I will separate this in a boy and girl section, as guys are different than girls when it comes to approaching and conversation starter.
Boys:
Number 1: This is one of the many ways to get a girl to notice you. Research. See, girls are complicated creatures that have more brains than guys, therefore because they are highly intelligent, they are more easily manipulated. Knowing a girls age, day of birth, features such as eye color or whatever, and also knowing their zodiac sign and blood type is key essential to manipulating them to like you. It is commonly known that people tend to act by their blood type mostly, like a blood type say A means they are outgoing or something, this is more so for Asian Countries. A zodiac sign also tells you about the person, like a Taurus is thick headed and stubborn. What you want to do with this information is learn it and apply it to yourselves, things like hair color and eye color can tell you so much about a person and what they are interested in so you can just "pretend" to be what they like. Now by pretend I mean, personally modifying your persona into that of which she likes, as humans, we are capable of controlling our minds and creating a different identity altogether.
Number 2: Number 2 is a bit simple, all you have to do is talk to them, and apply an undying attention to them, and pull in some love quotes here and there. What you want to do is be friends with them and then slowly poison their mind. For example, "hey how is your day, pretty tired huh;..... Oh yeah that was so funny, I can't believe that happened;...... Hmmm, I for once think that if we weren't friends I would fall madly in love with you." With this you want to dip their mind that you're totally her friend, but also throw in some love quotes here and there to start making her think that you love her, but her mind will reject that and say "naw man, he is my friend, just pulling my strings a bit as a joke." Slowly you will make that person fall in love with YOU, and then you can go all out and say "Can't wait to Detroit smash you."
Number 3: Tank it all in, say I Love you and get rejected, and be persistent. If you only have eyes for that one person it changes the way they think of you, they will think youre loyal and not going to Detroit smash their clunk-clonk.
Number 4: Use a tug of war method called the bridge effect, you want to mentally challenge them into submission, make them think that love can't be spelled without y[o]u, so get out there and make their heart skip a beat.
Number 5: The hate and love tactic, this one is the one where you both hate each other, and then you guys make up, this is to show that you are dominant. Don't take -clunk- from no one but also don't ruin your overall relationship, this one is more of a gamble.
There are many more I want to discuss but let us go with girls for now.
Girls are like I said before, intelligent creature. They are also dumb and arrogant which makes them easier to be manipulated by, even if youre hard to get manipulated, youre still easily manipulated when the right person comes. Since your mind is the easiest target, guys can tackle it head-on and influence your choices, you can say that your mind is your Achilles heel. Guy's are more stupid, we use our brains most of the time, but out heart and groin are our most delicate spot. We mostly confuse sexual pleasure or compassion with love. Here are some tips to get that guy of your dream [you wont show your appeal in most of these]
Number 1: The sob story. Make a few attempts to make your life feel like it went downhill. Do not lie on these neither, as when if you ever meet you won't be able to make up all the lies become reality and it will ruin your relationship pretty quickly. You want to make yourself be like "well yeah my parents are getting divorced and I don't know what to do, I understand where they are coming from but...it's whatever I guess, I just have to move on and get through this." Make yourself an obstacle mover type, sure this has happened to you, but its nothing to motivate you to stop on your tracks. This makes you look like a powerful girl, but with an unlucky path.
Number 2: Girl sit down, Be Humble. Don't make yourself look like you are a door knob, just be there and act like a normal person. No one cares that you have like a million friends and your first kiss was at 5 years old, and that you had your first time at like 14, keep it pg and be humble. Don't extravagant your life, but don't make it dull neither.
Number 3: Be nice. See, guys are all alpha male dogs. They like the nice, quiet girls that don't get into a lot of drama. They all want to defend you and they also think you're easy to slide into the DM, but you are not, be strong and be nice, don't let yourself be swooned easily. Although don't be too nice and victimize yourself, that in itself is a form of drama, and never be too nice to other girls, you will always be talked behind your backs and stuff and fake rumors will arise.
Number 4: hi you are reading this, which means you're a gamer girl. GRILLLLLLL.
Number 5: If someone is curious on how you look, don't be shy and say "I'm ugly so no." Guys are wank-thinkers, even if you look like the dude with the hump back from notre dame, they would still want to Detroit Smash you.
I want to go over more, If you like this psychology 101 thing series going on, leave a comment on what other topics you would like for me to discuss and a thumbs up.
Any questions or concerns I will not mind answering.
And remember, Psychology is the illusion to make your mind act a certain different way to cure and make your dreams come reality or whatever, usage of Psychology won't always work, as some brains are just immune to these tricks.
Have a great one
Comments
Also, you're not talking about Psychology there, but Hypnotism at the end. Psychology is more complicated than just "making people or yourself believe things you don't really want". Because that domain is only Manipulation. (And hypnotized people won't do things that they really don't want to.)
Phew, anyways, at least I had a good laugh throughout this.
PS : This topic shouldn't be here as it isn't related to LaTale. If someone could move it to "Off Topic"...
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